Settle & Return
Tools to settle what's happening, and return to each other, or to yourself.
A growing suite of calm, plain-spoken tools for the hardest moments, with a partner or on your own.
See the toolsTools, so far.
Some are for two people, when a relationship stops making sense. Some are for one, when everything is simply too much. Each does one small thing well.
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Safe Relationship Audit
For relationships under strain
A 10-page workbook for seeing which patterns keep repeating across safety, communication, conflict, trust, boundaries and repair. No score and no verdict: just the pattern, and one next step.
Get it on Etsy · $11
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Take Pause
For couples in conflict
The pause button for a fight. Two taps start a pause, and your partner knows you're taking space, not leaving.
takepau.se
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Here Again
For you, when it's all too much
When overwhelm takes over, Here Again brings you back to what's here, one small exercise at a time. Private, and nothing is stored.
hereagain.co
Nothing we make tells you who is right, whether to stay, or what is wrong with you. Each tool helps you slow down, see what is actually happening, and come back, to each other or to yourself.
What we make next.
The suite is still growing. Leave your email and we'll write when there's a new tool, and only then.
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